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Sunday Chats With Liv || Questioning

Sunday Chats With Liv || Questioning

November 19, 2017

I think it’s good to question sometimes. Whether it’s at school, or something you don’t understand or just in general. Like I’ve recently questioned the design of my blog which resulted in me starting to make gradual changes. Questioning is normal as it simply drives from our natural curiosity. When you question, you in most cases receive an answer back or information for you to be able to answer the question for yourself. But sometimes you can’t always get a straight answer. That can either lead you to become more driven to find a secure answer or leave you feeling lost and confused.

Sometimes getting a straight answer can put your mind at rest or leave you feeling upset or dissatisfied. You may have hoped for a different answer or thought so strongly that you knew the answer, but when it came it was completely different to what you thought. It’s like you’re happy that you have the answer but, you almost wish that you didn’t have it coz it wasn’t the solution you wanted or thought it would be.

 

But then you can’t win because when you don’t know the answer to the thing you’ve been questioning, you end up wanting to know the solid answer because you’ve become sick of the wishful thinking. The wishful thinking almost keeps you going and give you hope but deep down you know the answer is gonna be quite the contrary. I feel like this hope for what you think will be the answer can make you feel so so happy but the feeling after your find out the proper answer almost crushes all the hope that you had if you see what I mean.

Knowing the solution to your pondering question can put your mind at rest while also sending your thoughts into overdrive. Thinking what if or if this happened then… It’s so hard to accept things when they are not always what you hoped they’d be but after questioning closely follows acceptance and that in itself is something that we’ll have to accept.

 

 

 

 

P.S: I’m a Celebrity Starts tonight, who else is gonna be tuning in? Byesies! Xxxx

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12 comments

glowsteady November 19, 2017 - 8:43 PM

I’m forever questioning absolutely everything! Sometimes I’m pretty sure it’s me over thinking things but it’s useful sometimes X

Sophie
http://www.glowsteady.co.uk

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Olivia Alesha November 21, 2017 - 5:04 PM

That’s the same with me Sophie, I feel like I’m always overthinking but like you said it can be useful and help you to grow sometimes.
-Olivia Xxx

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A Love Affair with Beauty November 19, 2017 - 8:37 PM

When it comes to myself I have a lot of questions hopefully that i can answer but it’s usually to improve and get better. I hate having questions for or about other people. When you don’t know what answers they are going to give it can be terrifying! xx

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Olivia Alesha November 21, 2017 - 5:02 PM

I definitely think that questioning can lead to improvement in so many different aspects! Me too, that lil moment when you have no idea how someone will reply to your question can be quite scary.
-Olivia Xxx

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Corinne and Kirsty November 19, 2017 - 8:23 PM

I am often questioning what I do and directives I have to follow. I just want to know the why and how, that’s it. And also, questioning drives curiosity and pushes you to learn more! xx corinne

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Olivia Alesha November 21, 2017 - 5:00 PM

I totally agree Corinne! I pretty much always want to know why and the reasons behind certain things.
-Olivia Xxx

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Ellie November 19, 2017 - 8:17 PM

Questioning is such a good thing to do sometimes I’m not always brave enough to speak up but I really wish I was! Lovely post

Ellie
http://www.headintheclouds.me.uk

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Olivia Alesha November 21, 2017 - 4:59 PM

Thank you and me too Ellie, I’m not very brave when it comes to speaking up really. <3
-Olivia Xxx

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PAE Reviews November 19, 2017 - 8:09 PM

I think it’s great to question things sometimes because that’s how you learn and grow.

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Olivia Alesha November 21, 2017 - 4:58 PM

Me too, I definitely agree that questioning can lead to growth.
-Olivia Xx

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palegirlrambling November 19, 2017 - 8:09 PM

I’m forever questioning everything I do! I can never decide if it’s a good or a bad thing!
PaleGirlRambling xo
http://palegirlrambling.co.uk

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Olivia Alesha November 20, 2017 - 7:48 PM

Me neither, I guess in someways it’s both.
-Olivia Xx

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